06 Oct 2022
1. How should one react if one is insulted?
[Shri Sattireddy asked: Paadanamaskaram Swamiji, i am Sattireddy. Swamiji in Mahabharatham it is mentioned that Draupadi Devi smiled in front of Duryodhana. Due to that incident, he became furious and he insulted her in front of her in Judha Sabha in front of everyone and in front of her husbands. Dharma kept silence and stood with patience.
1.Swamiji my question is how a man or a woman should behave if he or she insulted by men or women because in the case of Duryodhana, his ego was triggered after the smiling of Draupadi? If any mistakes are there in the question itself Swamiji. Please this correct ignorant beggar Sattireddy🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏]
Swami replied:- At least having known the nature of Duryodhana, Draupadi should have controlled herself.
2. How can one react in public even if the spouse is wrong and still maintain Dharma?
[Swamiji my second question is if Judha Sabha is compared as public place he knows that his wife has done wrong before or her husband has done wrong but still she or he shouts in front of the public but he is not able to tell his wife that she is wrong or she can’t tell him that he is wrong. If the wife or husband tells them that he or she is wrong, there might be a chance of breaking their bond. The reason is that his or her ego triggers immediately because they are in public. Even they will tell that being a husband or wife you are not supporting his or her. If he or she kept silent then also, it is a problem in public point of view and relationship point of view
Swamiji in this how one can tackle this situation and still maintain Dharma Swamiji?? If any mistakes are there in the question itself Swamiji. Please this correct ignorant beggar sattireddy 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏]
Swami replied:- One must judge the importance of the point between two points. Difference with wife or husband is not a very strong point. But, controlling the husband or wife is more important because the result is going to be a big chaos. One must weigh the gravity of the point when the point is surrounded by several weak points. The resulting chaos made Dharmaraja also to suffer and his suffering is the punishment of his fault.
3. If a boy and a girl like each other but their astrological charts don't match, can they marry?
[If a boy and girl like each other but still their astrological chart don't match they can marry Swamiji?? If any mistakes are there in the question itself Swamiji. Please this correct ignorant beggar satti reddy 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏]
Swami replied:- They can marry and perform remedial measures like praying etc. Astrology has both diagnosis as well as the treatment like medical education.
4. If a boy and a girl do not like each other but their astrological charts match, can they marry?
[In another context if a boy and girl did not like each other but still astrological chart is good, can they marry Swamiji? The reason I am asking this question is I have heard from some preachers that if a girl or boy liked some other boy or girl before marriage and due to some reasons, he or she married somebody else, it affects the issues who are born to them. Swamiji, the preacher even told that the born issue will become an enemy of the father. If any mistakes are there in the question itself Swamiji. Please this correct ignorant beggar Sattireddy🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏]
Swami replied:- Son becoming enemy of father due to this reason is false. It all depends on the strength of the love between the boy and the girl. If the love is very strong, they can marry and perform the remedies. If the love is not pure and strong and if it is only temporary lust, any boy can marry any girl, which does not make much difference.
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